Some Advice for Young Women

As a senior at Cornell, I have spent enough time around young men to know that most young women would be appalled by what is said behind their backs. I have heard men speak with extraordinary contempt

As a senior at Cornell, I have spent enough time around young men to know that most young women would be appalled by what is said behind their backs. I have heard men speak with extraordinary contempt about women they sleep with, including those they spent substantial time and effort pursuing. Consider a woman who interprets sexual attention as evidence of true affection, believing that intimacy is bringing her closer to a committed relationship. The man she believes she is winning over is likel